The article title is a question you may well be asking yourself. Would it be ok and ethical to get my wife back with psychological tricks? In my opinion it’s ok.
There’s a lot of talk about psychological tricks being a bit underhand but the fact is we use these things almost every day.
We use psychological mind games in our daily lives all of the time.
We use reverse psychology on our kids when we need them to do something they aren’t keen on. We use it on our colleagues and friends.
When we do these things we rarely even notice we are doing it. It simply becomes second nature to us to weave a bit of psychological magic into our conversations.
You may fancy a session at the gym but your friend doesn’t fancy it. You slip in a comment that if they aren’t physically capable then that’s ok. Their sense of pride takes over and they are pumping iron before you.
You used a psychological trick there to get your friend to take the action you wanted. Psychological tricks at work. Looking at it like this it seems ok to use, certainly not sneaky.
You can use these tricks as part of your overall – get your ex back – strategy. One that worked for me involved curiosity.
I left her a message on her voice mail with a line in that I knew she would be curious about. And sure enough she called me back and started a conversation.
There’s other tricks you can use too. How about playing her favorite song in the background when she calls? She will start to link you with her favorite song. Then she starts to see you in a different light again.
If she comes to visit, if only to collect her belongings you could cook her favourite food. Then the smell of this conjours your image eveytime she smells it later.
There’s a whole host of tricks like these you can add to your plan to get your wife back. But the fact remains you got to have a solid plan if you want the right result.
Without a plan you may as well forget it as mind tricks just won’t work on their own. You need a definite strategy like the one I used when I wanted to get my wife back.
