I’m frequently asked how to find love when there’s been so much failure in the past. I thought I’d share some of the frequently asked questions and the Universal Law of Attraction model answer.

1. I’m just about to give up on love. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m afraid my time has passed.

Don’t give up. It’s NEVER too late. Make it your dominant intention to find out what belief you hold that stands between you and being a magnet for love.

Consider the Universe is a gigantic intention fulfillment machine. When you want a love relationship and you keep getting duds, there’s a mismatch in your beliefs. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. Look for whatever that limiting belief is and work with a coach to soften and shift that belief. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How can I know that I’m in the allowing mode? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. How do you work on the positive expectancy, the believing, knowing, the certainty? One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Every day, several times per day.

Play with the energy of make believe and feel it as real. How will you feel when… … the love of your dreams shows up … you plan a fun weekend getaway for her … you hold hands and tell jokes … you sing songs in the car on a road trip etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your vibration into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

I’m frequently asked how to find love when there’s been so much failure in the past. I thought I’d share some of the frequently asked questions and the Universal Law of Attraction model answer.

1. I’m just about to give up on love. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m afraid my time has passed.

Don’t give up. It’s NEVER too late. Make it your dominant intention to find out what belief you hold that stands between you and being a magnet for love.

If you’ve been asking and it’s not been forthcoming, there’s only one reason. When you want a love relationship and you keep getting duds, there’s a mismatch in your beliefs. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. Look for whatever that limiting belief is and work with a coach to soften and shift that belief. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How do I bring in the certainty in receiving? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. Build your belief muscles by pretending how wonderful it will be when your love shows up. Practice what it feels like to be in love. One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Every day, several times per day.

Play with the energy of make believe and feel it as real. How will you feel when… … the love of your dreams shows up … you plan a fun weekend getaway for her … you giggle at the inside jokes you both share … you play games in the car on a long ride etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your vibration into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

Here are some dating tips and insights to help you get back into the game, especially if you’re dating after divorce. In the last of our series on Dating Consciously, “

Appearance Aren’t Everything,” we’ll take a closer look at the visual side of appearance. Check out the results from a dating survey. Choose the most important features of a partner

• Personality 30%
• Sense of Humor 14%
• Smile 12%
• Looks 11%
• Eyes 10%
• Hair 7%
• Education 7%
• Physique 5%
• Career 3%
• Popularity 0%

Personality ranked Number 1 by a long shot!

What does it say about the dater and the datee? It says that personality is a desirable trait from either person’s point of view.

Appearance is often categorized as an external representation of a person. Personality, self-confidence, an engaging attitude, warmth and authenticity are the traits that win out over Physical Appearance. So many of us are hung up on physical appearance, we get stopped before we get started.

What are characteristics of personality? Self-confidence. The ability to relax and enjoy in a easy and engaging manner. What are inherent traits of self-confidence?

1. Knowing what you want.

2. Feeling assured that what you want is within your reach.

3. Knowing you’re worthy of what you want.

4. Under most circumstances you remain non-plussed.

What I’m pointing to is the non-physical aspects of ‘Personality’. An engaging personality has little to do with physical appearance. Many people I know getting back into the dating game get stopped with the externals of the game.

Your internal dialog goes something like this … “I’m no longer a spring chicken, I can’t compete with the hotties, The singles scene seems so superficial.”

Putting your best foot forward, being ready to shine, being kind and open, are the winners of the day. Realize that you don’t have to do the singles thing. Don’t limit yourself by what others are saying.

From the perspective of a Law of Attraction Coach, the essence of what you emanate is attracted or drawn right back to you. If that’s so, (and it IS) doesn’t it makes sense to get dressed with a smile before you go out of the house? It becomes a matter of practicing the traits of self-confidence; being clear about what you want, the ability to have it, knowing your worthy of what you want, and being calmly expectant that the timing is all in perfect order.

“To be in the Dating Consciously mode, you need to ENERGETICALLY dress for success”.

To win the dating game, you want to remember it’s your choice. So choose it to be fun.

Try scripting your desired outcome for any date. Write as though the date already happened and you’re really pleased with the outcome. If you don’t have any dating prospects, script a pleasant outcome from a trip to the library or coffee shop. You’re creating your entire life by your beliefs and your thoughts, so why not get creative and deliberate about it. You might be pleasantly surprised.

Your enjoyment of life is directly related to how you perceive every event, situation or outcome. It’s not always easy to see that our interpretation of an event is what makes it good or bad. Gain super power by taking on that it’s your job to feel joy and confidence. Nobody else has the power to make you feel bad or good, for that matter. It’s always an inside job.

Remember, dating is a game. Relationships are a game. We play to have fun, to explore and expand our nature. I wish you many fun adventures!

I’m frequently asked how to find love when there’s been so much failure in the past. I thought I’d share some of the frequently asked questions and the Universal Law of Attraction model answer.

1. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m just about to give up on love. If I haven’t met a good one by now, will it ever happen?

Don’t give up. It’s NEVER too late. Make it your dominant intention to find out what belief you hold that stands between you and being a magnet for love.

If you’ve been asking and it’s not been forthcoming, there’s only one reason. When you want a love relationship and you keep getting duds, there’s a mismatch in your beliefs. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. Look for whatever that limiting belief is and work with a coach to soften and shift that belief. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How can I know that I’m in the allowing mode? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. Build your belief muscles by pretending how wonderful it will be when your love shows up. Practice what it feels like to be in love. One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Practice frequently. It takes repetition to learn a new habit.

Play with the energy of make believe and feel it as real. How will you feel when… … the love of your life comes to stay … you plan a fun weekend getaway for her … you giggle at the inside jokes you both share … you sing songs in the car on a road trip etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your vibration into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

Here are some dating tips and insights to help you get back into the game, especially if you’re dating after divorce. In the last of our series on Dating Consciously, “

Appearance Aren’t Everything,” let’s talk about the all important external part of appearance. Here are the results from a survey taken by a popular dating. The most important attributes in a mate

• Personality 30%
• Sense of Humor 14%
• Smile 12%
• Looks 11%
• Eyes 10%
• Hair 7%
• Education 7%
• Physique 5%
• Career 3%
• Popularity 0%

As you can see, Personality rated top, overwhelmingly!

What does it say about the dater and the datee? What’s clearly established here is that it’s not a physical attribute at all, but an internal one.

Appearance is often categorized as a person’s physical attractiveness. But as you can see, Personality was rated number one. So many of us are hung up on physical appearance, we get stopped before we get started.

What are characteristics of personality? Self-confidence. The ability to relax and enjoy in a outgoing and engaging manner. What are inherent traits of self-confidence?

1. Being clear on an objective.

2. Feeling assured that what you want is within your reach.

3. Knowing you’re worthy of what you want.

4. Under most circumstances you remain non-plussed.

What I’m pointing to is the non-physical aspects of ‘Personality’. An engaging personality has little to do with physical appearance. Many people I know getting back into the dating game get stopped with the externals of the game.

Your internal dialog goes something like this … “I’m no longer a spring chicken, I can’t compete with the hotties, The singles scene seems so superficial.”

Putting your best foot forward, having an engaging attitude, always having a ready, genuine smile, are the winners of the day. You can meet Mr. or Ms. Right in the grocery store, at church, on a walk, anywhere. Don’t limit yourself by what others are saying.

From the perspective of a Law of Attraction Coach, the essence of what you emanate is attracted or drawn right back to you. If that’s so, (and it IS) doesn’t it makes sense to get dressed with a smile before you go out of the house? It becomes a matter of practicing the traits of self-confidence; being clear about what you want, the ability to have it, knowing your worthy of what you want, and being calmly expectant that the timing is all in perfect order.

“To be in the Dating Consciously mode, you need to ENERGETICALLY dress for success”.

To win the dating game, you want to remember it’s your choice. So choose it to be fun.

Why not write a little summary of an after-the-fact successful date. Write as though the date already happened and you’re really pleased with the outcome. If you don’t have any dating prospects, script a pleasant outcome from a trip to the library or coffee shop. You’re creating your entire life by your beliefs and your thoughts, so why not get creative and deliberate about it. You might be pleasantly surprised.

Your enjoyment of life is directly related to how you perceive every event, situation or outcome. It’s not always easy to see that our interpretation of an event is what makes it good or bad. Gain super power by taking on that it’s your job to feel joy and confidence. Nobody else has the power to make you feel bad or good, for that matter. It’s always an inside job.

Remember, dating is a game. Relationships are a game. Make sure your games are for fun and you’ll always have a great experience. And remember to enjoy the journey.

I get asked questions about how to find love , the kind of love that lasts. Here are a couple of your burning questions and my Law of Attraction coaching answer to them.

1. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m just about to give up on love. I’m afraid my time has passed.

Don’t give up. It’s NEVER too late. Make it your dominant intention to find out what belief you hold that stands between you and being a magnet for love.

Consider the Universe is a gigantic intention fulfillment machine. When you want a love relationship and you keep getting duds, there’s a mismatch in your beliefs. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. Look for whatever that limiting belief is and work with a coach to soften and shift that belief. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How do I bring in the certainty in receiving? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. Build your belief muscles by pretending how wonderful it will be when your love shows up. Practice what it feels like to be in love. One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Every day, several times per day.

By the feeling state, I mean engaging all of the senses by imagining what it will be like when … … the love of your life comes to stay … you plan a surprise gourmet picnic for him … you giggle at the inside jokes you both share … you play games in the car on a long ride etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your expectation frequency into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

Here are some dating tips and insights to help you get back into the game, especially if you’re dating after divorce. In the last of our series on Dating Consciously, “

Looks Aren’t Everything,” let’s talk about the all important external part of appearance. Check out the results from a dating survey. The most important attributes in a mate

• Personality 30%
• Sense of Humor 14%
• Smile 12%
• Looks 11%
• Eyes 10%
• Hair 7%
• Education 7%
• Physique 5%
• Career 3%
• Popularity 0%

Personality ranked Number 1 by a long shot!

What does that say about a person? It says that personality is a desirable trait from either person’s point of view.

Appearance is often categorized as a person’s physical attractiveness. But as you can see, Personality was rated number one. So many of us are hung up on physical appearance, we get stopped before we get started.

What are characteristics of personality? Self-confidence. The ability to relax and enjoy in a easy and engaging manner. What are inherent traits of self-confidence?

1. Being clear on an objective.

2. Self-assurance.

3. Knowing you’re worthy of what you want.

4. Poise.

What I’m pointing to is the non-physical aspects of ‘Personality’. An engaging personality has little to do with physical appearance. Dating for many people gets difficult when you’re focused on the externals.

Your internal dialog goes something like this … “I’m no longer a spring chicken, I can’t compete with the hotties, The singles scene seems so superficial.”

Putting your best foot forward, having an engaging attitude, being kind and open, will make all the difference. You can meet Mr. or Ms. Right in the grocery store, at church, on a walk, anywhere. Don’t limit yourself by what others are saying.

From the perspective of a Law of Attraction Coach, the essence of what you emanate is attracted or drawn right back to you. If that’s so, (and it IS) doesn’t it makes sense to get dressed with a smile before you go out of the house? It becomes a matter of practicing the traits of self-confidence; being clear about what you want, the ability to have it, knowing your worthy of what you want, and being calmly expectant that the timing is all in perfect order.

“To be in the Dating Consciously mode, you need to ENERGETICALLY dress for success”.

To win the dating game, you want to remember it’s your choice. So choose it to be fun.

Why not write a little summary of an after-the-fact successful date. Write as though the date already happened and you’re really pleased with the outcome. If you don’t have any dating prospects, script a pleasant outcome from a trip to the library or coffee shop. You’re creating your entire life by your beliefs and your thoughts, so why not get creative and deliberate about it. You might be pleasantly surprised.

Your enjoyment of life is directly related to how you perceive every event, situation or outcome. It’s not always easy to see that our interpretation of an event is what makes it good or bad. Gain super power by taking on that it’s your job to feel joy and confidence. Nobody else has the power to make you feel bad or good, for that matter. It’s always an inside job.

Remember, dating is a game. Relationships are a game. We play to have fun, to explore and expand our nature. I wish you many fun adventures!

I get asked questions about how to find love , the kind of love that lasts. I thought I’d share some of the frequently asked questions and the Universal Law of Attraction model answer.

1. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m just about to give up on love. I’m afraid my time has passed.

Don’t give up. It’s NEVER too late. Make it your dominant intention to find out what belief you hold that stands between you and being a magnet for love.

Consider the Universe is a gigantic intention fulfillment machine. When you ask, and it’s not coming, you have a dominant belief or vibration about it being difficult. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. When you find out what that belief is, do whatever it takes to soothe yourself about it. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How can I know that I’m in the allowing mode? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. How do you work on the positive expectancy, the believing, knowing, the certainty? One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Practice frequently. It takes repetition to learn a new habit.

Play with the energy of make believe and feel it as real. How will you feel when… … the love of your life comes to stay … you plan a fun weekend getaway for her … you hold hands and tell jokes … you play games in the car on a long ride etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your expectation frequency into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

I get asked questions about how to find love , the kind of love that lasts. Here are a couple of your burning questions and my Law of Attraction coaching answer to them.

1. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m just about to give up on love. If I haven’t met a good one by now, will it ever happen?

If you can desire it, you can achieve it. Find out what belief you have, what story you’re telling yourself that’s not true and make it your business to shift that belief.

If you’ve been asking and it’s not been forthcoming, there’s only one reason. When you want a love relationship and you keep getting duds, there’s a mismatch in your beliefs. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. Look for whatever that limiting belief is and work with a coach to soften and shift that belief. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How can I know that I’m in the allowing mode? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. How do you work on the positive expectancy, the believing, knowing, the certainty? One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Every day, several times per day.

By the feeling state, I mean engaging all of the senses by imagining what it will be like when … … the love of your life comes to stay … you plan a surprise gourmet picnic for him … you hold hands and tell jokes … you sing songs in the car on a road trip etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your vibration into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

Here are some dating tips and insights to help you get back into the game, especially if you’re dating after divorce. In the last of our series on Dating Consciously, “

Appearance Aren’t Everything,” let’s talk about the all important external part of appearance. Here are the results from a survey taken by a popular dating. The most important attributes in a mate

• Personality 30%
• Sense of Humor 14%
• Smile 12%
• Looks 11%
• Eyes 10%
• Hair 7%
• Education 7%
• Physique 5%
• Career 3%
• Popularity 0%

As you can see, Personality rated top, overwhelmingly!

What does it say about the dater and the datee? It says that personality is a desirable trait from either person’s point of view.

Appearance is often categorized as an external representation of a person. Personality, self-confidence, an engaging attitude, warmth and authenticity are the traits that win out over Physical Appearance. So many of us are hung up on physical appearance, we get stopped before we get started.

What are characteristics of personality? Confidence. The ability to communicate openly in a outgoing and engaging manner. What are inherent traits of self-confidence?

1. Knowing what you want.

2. Feeling assured that what you want is within your reach.

3. Self-esteem.

4. Under most circumstances you remain non-plussed.

What I’m pointing to is the non-physical aspects of ‘Personality’. An engaging personality has little to do with physical appearance. Many people I know getting back into the dating game get stopped with the externals of the game.

Your internal dialog goes something like this … “I’m no longer a spring chicken, I can’t compete with the hotties, The singles scene seems so superficial.”

Putting your best foot forward, having an engaging attitude, always having a ready, genuine smile, are the winners of the day. You can meet Mr. or Ms. Right in the grocery store, at church, on a walk, anywhere. Don’t limit yourself by what others are saying.

From the perspective of a Law of Attraction Coach, the essence of what you emanate is attracted or drawn right back to you. If that’s so, (and it IS) doesn’t it makes sense to get dressed with a smile before you go out of the house? It becomes a matter of practicing the traits of self-confidence; being clear about what you want, the ability to have it, knowing your worthy of what you want, and being calmly expectant that the timing is all in perfect order.

“To be in the Dating Consciously mode, you need to ENERGETICALLY dress for success”.

To win the dating game, you want to remember it’s your choice. So choose it to be fun.

Try scripting your desired outcome for any date. Write as though the date already happened and you’re really pleased with the outcome. If you don’t have any dating prospects, script a pleasant outcome from a trip to the library or coffee shop. You’re creating your entire life by your beliefs and your thoughts, so why not get creative and deliberate about it. You might be pleasantly surprised.

Your enjoyment of life is directly related to how you perceive every event, situation or outcome. It’s not always easy to see that our interpretation of an event is what makes it good or bad. Gain super power by taking on that it’s your job to feel joy and confidence. Nobody else has the power to make you feel bad or good, for that matter. It’s always an inside job.

Remember, dating is a game. Relationships are a game. Make sure your games are for fun and you’ll always have a great experience. And remember to enjoy the journey.