The title of the article is a question you should be asking yourself. Is it ok to use psychological tricks to get my wife back? I think so, yes.
There’s a lot of talk about psychological tricks being a bit underhand but the fact is we use these things almost every day.
We use psychological mind games in our daily lives all of the time.
We use reverse psychology on our kids when we need them to do something they aren’t keen on. We use it on our colleagues and friends.
We seldom know we are doing this. As it’s part of our lives to coerce people into doing something with some magic words.
Imagine going out for a run but your friend just isn’t up for it. You quietly let them know it’s fine if they don’t feel physically up to the task. Before you know it their pride takes over and they are bursting to get going.
You get your friend to do as you asked by merely slipping in a few choice words. These are psychological tricks in use. They don’t seem unethical to me.
You can use these tricks as part of your overall – get your ex back – strategy. One that worked for me involved curiosity.
I intended to leave her a phone message with a few sentences in that she just had to be curious about. She certainly was and she got back to me within a day or two.
Another trick is to play her favorite song in the background if when she calls. She immediately starts to associate you with that song and she starts to think nice thoughts about you again.
How about cooking something you know she loves next time she visits. She may only be visiting to pick up her stuff but if she smells her favorite food the good memories come flooding back.
There’s a whole host of tricks like these you can add to your plan to get your wife back. But the fact remains you got to have a solid plan if you want the right result.
Without a plan you may as well forget it as mind tricks just won’t work on their own. You need a definite strategy like the one I used when I wanted to get my wife back.
